Can you do something like a
Split Domain - Zimbra :: Wiki but not migrate your users to zimbra? i.e. put zimbra as primary MTA, forward all mail from zimbra to your existing qmail box, where you do this for every zimbra account:
Code:
zmprov ma bar@zimbra.example.com zimbraMailTransport smtp:qmail.example.com:25
Then for calendaring users either -
* go to the zimbra web interface
* point Lightning (or whatever iCal client) to zimbra
..and email remains intact?