Hi Phoenix,
I admire your speed and good will to keep answering
Now...I am a bit confused, because latest dissapearance was different from past one. I investigated:
First mail dissapeared when client FORWARDED a mail with large attachment from his PDA phone, forwarded mail had no attachment in, and original mail then dissapeared. I found this mail in zimbra.log, but not in any IMAP folder.
Second dissapearance occured today, showing new mail briefly in INBOX for few seconds and then dissapeared. But this time I cannot trace mail in zimbra.log, so I assume it was an OLD mail, briefly shown as "unread", but then immidiatelly recognised as "read" and sorted, so it actually moved to proper position (sorted by date) in inbox.
Which means, that this last problem is actually no problem at all.