Well it was easy to fix, first i had changed my ssh port so maybe that's why my zimbra goes crazy, first i change my ssh port running zimbra using:
zmprov ms MAIL.DOMAIN.COM zimbraRemoteManagementPort 2222
then y re-generate the keys:
zmsshkeygen
and deploy them:
zmupdateauthkeys
after that i checked all with:
ssh -i .ssh/zimbra_identity -o strictHostKeyChecking=no
zimbra@MAIL.DOMAIN.COM
if everything goes ok you will not be prompt for a password on that
then zmcontrol stop/start
and got it, i got back my mail queue

, thanks mmorse
